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Classical mythology
my dream man
I woke up one morning and wrote this long list of all the things I wanted in my “Ideal” partner. Granted, I am not under the illusion that I am looking for this one person only and I can only find happiness that way. That to me is ridiculous. However these are just things that I really value and appreciate in a partner. I’m not looking for a relationship but these are just things I think about…
- He is intelligent, I absolutely love stimulating conversation.
-He practices witchcraft, any tradition (Druidic, eclectic, Wiccan, Vodun, Santerian, etc.) I would love to share a love for spellcraft with my partner.
-We can laugh and play as well as hold serious discussion. I need a deep connection with a person that allows a range of emotion.
-He holds me like I’m his woman, he makes love to me like I’m his Goddess. ;)
-We take care of each other, can be wild and crazy but responsible.
-He loves to dance with me.
-High sex drive is a plus. haha.
-He has a lot of respect and care for my Mother and her wishes. She is the most important person in my life.
-He is social with me, goes to parties/clubs/friendly get togethers.
-A lot of romance, lights candles, writes me poems, notes, roses, etc.
- A BIG thing for me is someone that does NOT smoke. I made a lifetime vow to never pick up a cigarette or joint again and since that day I have not smoked anything. Having a partner that is also smoke free is very important. Drinking is ok in moderation.
-He wants children. If I’m going to seriously commit to a man and marry him, I would like to have some children.
-He has some muscle, I like a man that is strong. :)
-It would be nice if he could speak Spanish with me.
-Compatible music tastes.
-He is devoted to his dreams and ambitions, I have huge dreams and I need someone else just as inspired and driven to keep me going. It’s going to be a long road.
-He is devoted to his spirituality and connection with the divine. I hold this very high. I admire anyone who has a deep love and devotion to any deity.
-He is faithful, honest and trustworthy.
-He is compassionate and will help those he is able to help.
-He has wished for me too…..
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Summer Plans
So, this weekend I’m going to my friend Dustin’s Graduation Party. I made an altar kit for him. :)
Next weekend on May 13 I’m going to board a plane for Miami to see my best guy friend of about 6 years, Yainel. He and his family moved to Homestead last September and not being able to see him every time I went home has been so hard. I miss him so much. We used to live 5 minutes away from each other and would hang everyday that we could. He’s like my brother and I can not wait to see him! I’ll be there until the 27th.
Then I’ll spend some time at home. On June 13th I’ll get on yet another plane for Los Angeles CA to visit my Dad. It’s been about four years since I’ve seen him in person and we went through about a ten year estrangement, for lack of a better word. I can’t say I’m expecting everything to be resolved and for us to start having a real father-daughter relationship. It would be nice, but I am not banking on it. I think it’s too late for that honestly. We can be friends. I don’t think he ever knew how to be a father, but he can be a friend. I’ll celebrate my 20th birthday there with him. We’re going to San Fransisco/Novato CA to see my Aunt Sarita for her 60th birthday party. And he said he’d take me around the town I was born in, Burbank CA. I’m so excited for that. This should be a good visit. The first one.
On June 23rd I’ll get on a plane from LA to Durango, Colorado to visit my Uncle Pat and Aunt Shirley. They moved to Durango a year and a half ago from Saline, Michigan. I have not seen them in 7 or 8 years. I used to go with them and my cousins Diane and Vivian out camping when I was young and we lived in Akron, Ohio. However since then their visits have been very few and we never have had funds to go to Michigan to see them. I am so happy to get to see so much family this summer.
Then some time after I visit with them, we haven’t decided when yet but I’ll fly back home to SC to spend time with my Mom. My Mom and I are planning to get matching tattoos when I get back.
We have not decided on which type of tree yet, but we’re both getting trees. My tree will have green leaves and look as if in springtime to represent the spring of my life, like the maiden Goddess. My mother’s tree will be in autumn and the leaves will be falling, representing the mother transitioning into crone part of her life like the Crone Goddess. I am turning 20 on June 21st and my mom will turn 54 on August 13th this year. We are in different seasons but we’re going through them together.
I am so lucky to have such a loving family and I’m excited to spend time with all of them. I thought I’d keep you posted tumblr, because I won’t be on here for very long this summer.
Brightest Blessings. <3
